各位老哥帮我分析个买鸡纠纷

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我在一个老外那买了台机器，约定是2天交付，这都五天了还在找各种理由延期，后来我申请退款，他说保证几小时内交付，结果又延期了，我急了去paypal争议了。
结果他在工单里反问我一句I received your dispute, still wondering why you would do that as we are working hard to get your dedicated server ready.

从我的认知看，这个机器上架有多困难跟我没关系，我都多忍了好几天了够意思了，就算他家房子塌了也不该影响交付给我吧。

所以这事是我理所当然了，还是老外理所当然了。麻烦老哥们给说说。

是哪个商家暂时不说了，不是为了爆破他，单纯就是论这个事。

补充一下：
有老哥跟我说我不该直接争议，这是没错的，主要是我没把情况发全，名字改成xxx了，给人家留点隐私：

1. How is the progress？I’m waiting for one week. Thanks.
   
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4. (12 Apr 2024, 13:54) 您
   
5. If the server can't work and difficult to repair, Please refund me. Thanks.
   
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8. 
   
9. XXX (12 Apr 2024, 14:19)
   
10. We expect to deliver this within the coming 4 hours!
    
11. 
    
12. (12 Apr 2024, 22:00) 您
    
13. 7 hours passed sir.
    
14. 
    
15. 
    
16. (03:14) 您
    
17. More than 12 hours sir. Where is my server?
    
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21. XXX (07:26)
    
22. Hello, as its night time for us we did not be aboe to set it up. I expect it to be sent to your email in the coming 2 hours. You have my word.
    
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25. XXX (07:28)
    
26. I received your dispute, still wondering why you would do that as we are working hard to get your dedicated server ready.

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ftlh2005

不守时的人没什么好说的

apoloy

避雷

老公

你把这两点翻译一下发给他就行了，我感觉你做的没问题

iiss

你可以直接要求他退款呀，争议一般是他不愿意退款才发起的。

507

大概率是被骗了吧。

似毛非毛

争议前应该和商家协商。争议对商家影响很大。

viiber

你没问题啊

天空的圣域

似毛非毛 发表于 2024-4-13 17:08
争议前应该和商家协商。争议对商家影响很大。

我和他商量过退款了，他忽悠我We expect to deliver this within the coming 4 hours!
我心想就算了，结果过了大半天还没下文，就申请争议了，结果他看见争议跟我说再有两小时就好了。我是真不信了。